The disrespect between India and its South Asian neighbors has now become mutual!
South Asia comprises the eight countries of Afghanistan, Bangladesh, Bhutan, India, Maldives, Nepal, Pakistan, and Sri Lanka. Due to the vast region occupied by India, academic books name it ‘big brother’.
But somehow, the ‘big brother’ has been disrespecting its South Asian neighbors since it became a Republic in 1950. This has increased since 2014 when a pro-Hindu nationalist party came to power in India. The neighboring nations were giving it respect. But now things have changed. The disrespect seems to have become mutual. What are the reasons?

The arrogance of ‘big brother’ toward its South Asian neighbors
India was considered a moral influencer in the region. But it seems to have long ago lost this position. There was news that despite repeated requests for a meeting, Sheikh Hasina, Prime Minister of Bangladesh, refused to meet India’s High Commissioner. To mend ties, foreign secretary Harsh Vardhan Shringla had to rush to Dhaka. Nepal and Sri Lanka are also turning away from India.
Ill talks and lack of censuring of these insensitive remarks
Politicians of India have been making insensitive remarks about their neighbors. This has been increasing with time and exponentially over the last 6 years.
Statements like ‘half of Bangladesh would be empty if India gives citizenship to Bangladeshis’ could well have been avoided or at least censured or rebuked. But none of these happened and the insult penetrated deep. One cannot hope for any warm relations from its neighbors after such uncalled-for rude comments.
Bhutan and its inclination towards China
Before, Indian traders at the Indo-Bhutan border used to accept Bhutanese currency. But since the border sealing post-COVID-19, Eastern Bhutan traders are finding it extremely difficult to get their Bhutanese currency exchanged in India. One can put these matters as minor but these small irritants could add to the other major problems affecting the two nations.
Sri Lanka had asked for India’s help in delaying its debt repayment and for a currency swap facility. But even at the end of four months of a personal request from Sir Lankan PM, Mahina Rajapaksa, there has been no movement on that front. It is but natural that Sir Lanka might seek assistance from China in it.
India has failed miserably in delivering some tangible benefits to its neighbors. It also has strained ties with the island nation of Maldives. And it never did have good ties with Pakistan and Afghanistan since the post-partition days. Except for talking about anti-terrorism and Hinduism, India has offered nothing worthwhile to the region.
India has to stop berating and belittling and see to it that the collective psyche of the nation is not anti-neighbors!
Source: The Wire