True love! A Chinese Man Takes Care of His Paralyzed First date Girlfriend for 30 years

True love! A Chinese Man Takes Care of His Paralyzed First date Girlfriend for 30 years
A Chinese Man takes care of his paralyzed girlfriend (source: Times Now News)
  • A Chinese man Xu Zhili is taking care of his first-date girlfriend for 30 years after she got paralyzed.
  • Then 29 years old fell in love with 21-year-old migrant worker Huang Cuiyun, who is taking care of her.
  • Let’s learn about how true love cares about another partner more than the self.

Chinese Man is Taking Care of His Paralyzed girlfriend since 1992

A Chinese man Xu Zhili who spent 30 years caring for his paralyzed girlfriend, has her all her life thanking her first date boyfriend for loving her so intensely.

A Chinese Man takes care of his paralysed girlfriend (1)
A Chinese Man takes care of his paralyzed girlfriend (source: Timesnownews)

Sad life but migrant worker Huang Cuiyun was paralyzed a month after she met Xu Zhili, her lover for over 30 years now. The Chinese lover had been taking care of her girl even though she is paralyzed.

The first date changed their lives forever, Xu now is taking care of his girl who was a migrant worker Huang Cuiyun in central China’s Hunan province in 1992. Falling in love, at first sight, is not the major attraction of this story. Huang was desperately interested to introduce Xu to her family but got paralyzed just a month after dating.

What happened to Huang Cuiyun?

This particular Chinese first date story is winning the hearts of thousands of people around the world. But everyone is wondering, how the lady got paralyzed.

Xu Zhili who was going to meet Huang’s parents by bus got disheartened after his beau got paralyzed her legs in the mishap. Xu who was also on the same bus just banged his head and have only minor injuries but Huang got her legs paralyzed and her sine was also severely damaged.

Why did not the Chinese man Xu Zhili leave Huang?

The Chinese man Xu Zhili was in love with Huang no matter if she remains fit or paralyzed. Xu’s family and relatives tried to convince him to leave Huang but how can he leave someone he loved?

Xu had promised Huang to be by her side no matter what and 30 years from then, he is living the promise. However, he wanted to fulfill the promise of spending his life with her. Xu in a viral video on Chinese social media last week told,

 “I told her that I would look after her for life when we were dating, and I would keep my promise.” 

Once Huang was discharged from the hospital, Xu felt sad about what happened but he prepared himself to remain by her side. Thus, Xu took her to his home to take care of her.

Xu Zhili Loved his Paralyzed Girlfriend more than Anything

Xu has sacrificed a lot of things, new opportunities, a healthy partner, and most of all his time since Hunag needed constant care. The Chinese man did not leave the village and grow his healthy crops to feed Huang.

The Chinese man learned to play the erhu, a Chinese two-stringed musical instrument, to entertain his partner at the time. He was a lover and a carer than the man who seek profits in every aspect of his life.

A Chinese Man takes care of his paralyzed girlfriend
A Chinese Man takes care of his paralyzed girlfriend (Source: South China Morning Post)

Huang was so lucky she encountered Xu as he constantly take care of her comfort more than anything. On her behalf, Xu made a customized toilet so that Huang could use it without his help. Similarly, he has also made a hoe-shaped tool that let her aid in bed.

Years later in the tragic accident, the couple is leading a blissful life. And the shocking fact is that Huang did not tell her family about the accident for 26 years. Her father got to know about his daughter Huang’s condition only he sought the help of local reporters to trace her.

The Chinese couple who are now married for over 4 years, just after Huang’s reunion with her family. The couple had even adopted a daughter as Huang could not have children.

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